Taking a page from systems thinking, I often ask my kids, "What is different and what's the same?" between what they have both been given. It often helps them look at things more objectively and typically, they conclude the differences are quite minor or fitting.
Yes! I love that approach. My older kid will find every single thing ever about his brother and conveniently "forget" about the things for him (or not consider them as for him), but he's getting more and more objective about it.
Taking a page from systems thinking, I often ask my kids, "What is different and what's the same?" between what they have both been given. It often helps them look at things more objectively and typically, they conclude the differences are quite minor or fitting.
Yes! I love that approach. My older kid will find every single thing ever about his brother and conveniently "forget" about the things for him (or not consider them as for him), but he's getting more and more objective about it.